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Triage Teaching: Prioritizing Emotional Survival Before Academic Success

Updated: Sep 27

by Charles Mathison

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In emergency medicine, triage means assessing who needs help most urgently and addressing the most life-threatening wounds first. Increasingly, teaching—especially in special education and trauma-informed settings—feels like its own version of triage. We walk into classrooms where academic goals hang on the wall, but what we often face are emotional emergencies, survival behaviors, and children who are silently screaming for help. Before we can teach fractions, we have to teach regulation. Before we can get to paragraph structure, we have to rebuild trust.


The New First Period: Crisis Response


At 8:10 AM, my first student arrives angry. He’s yelling about breakfast, about the bus, about nothing and everything. I greet him calmly, guiding him to the reset corner. By the time second period rolls around, another student is curled under a desk after learning her mother might lose custody. These aren't isolated incidents—they are the rhythm of the day. In some classrooms, the first subject isn’t reading or math; it’s de-escalation.


This is triage teaching: the deliberate act of prioritizing emotional stabilization over academic delivery. It doesn’t mean we stop teaching. It means we teach in the order a child can receive.


Redefining "Readiness"


We often talk about “readiness to learn” as a fixed point—are they ready or not? But in reality, readiness is fluid, impacted by hunger, safety, medication, trauma triggers, and how many adults a child had to navigate before they made it to your classroom. Triage teaching means acknowledging that readiness is not a prerequisite we wait for, but something we create. Through routines. Through regulation. Through presence.


Some days, a student might only complete two sentences, and that’s okay. Because they stayed in the room. Because they didn’t throw the chair. Because they asked for help instead of running. Progress in triage teaching looks different—quieter, slower, and more human.


Teachers as Stabilizers


What’s often misunderstood about this work is that the teacher isn’t just delivering content—they are functioning as a stabilizing force. Our tone, our consistency, our ability to co-regulate becomes more valuable than any worksheet or textbook. Students with emotional disabilities aren’t misbehaving for attention. They are signaling dysregulation, fear, and unmet needs. And sometimes, our ability to witness that without escalating it is the most powerful intervention we can offer.


But this work takes its toll. Triage teachers often carry the emotional residue of everyone else's crises. They absorb tension, redirect aggression, and then get judged by the absence of traditional academic data. Their real successes are invisible: the student who didn’t explode today. The one who came back after walking out yesterday.


When Academic Growth Follows Emotional Safety


Here’s the good news: when emotional safety becomes the foundation, academic growth eventually follows. A student who once refused to pick up a pencil starts asking for spelling help. The one who cursed you out last month now checks in with a simple, “Can I try again?” These are not miracles. They are the long-term results of triage teaching—of meeting needs in the order they matter.



Triage teaching isn’t an excuse to give up on academics. It’s a reordering of priorities, a recognition that emotional survival is the doorway to cognitive engagement. It’s exhausting, nuanced, and deeply necessary. And it’s time we honored it for what it is: not soft or permissive, but strategic, compassionate, and rooted in real-world pedagogy.


  • In a system obsessed with metrics, triage teachers quietly save lives—one emotionally-regulated moment at a time. I wrote this article from the perspective a as practicing triage educator.

    A professional development worksheet based on this article can be downloaded here

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